If you often have your attention and energy directed to others you are not really in touch with your Self. Then you are insensitive to what happens to your inside. Other entities will then easily occupy you. You do not feel what occurs and you do not notice what it is your body needs. Eventually you fall ill. When you fall ill you tend to stick to this sickening energy instead of solving the problem that caused it. You become entangled in the spider web known as the Super Ego. You accumulate in your body much pathogenic energy of entities, which do not belong in your body. Ultimately, this is too much for your body and your body takes different forms, defects or becomes seriously ill. It appears that for a long period you missed the signals of your body and that you lost to maintain balance. You continued to make other people’s problems yours until a serious illness or dead knocks on your door. You cannot distinguish theirs and your issues and you easily judge and often condemn.
Because you are focused outwards and no longer experience whatever happens to your life or the world, you develop a fear of reality or fear of a particular object. This tension cumulates in your body in the internal organs. Many fears develop in childhood because your parents project their fear onto you or because they do not teach you how to face issues and handle them adequately. They don’t offer many possibilities. They do not teach you that after a choice you yourself are held responsible for the choice you made. To experience something is almost obstructed by today’s society. Society fears that an experience may cause an accident or kill someone, while this is just part of being alive and the teachings/experiences of life. Many of today’s parents suffer from neurotic anxiety because they have no own identity or suffer from moral anxiety caused by their egocentricity. They don’t teach their children how to cope with certain things life throws at them but instead teach their children to be afraid, avoid issues or suppress issues by self-centered behavior.
The more you depend on an environment that determines how you must feel, the stronger the tendency to deny certain emotions or distort the experience. The result is a huge gap between experience and observation. This makes it difficult to act effectively. If there is agreement between experience and observation, you act faster, are more productive, efficient and respond effective. In order to achieve balance, you need appreciation, reward and support in all actions that are an attempt to restore balance. For balance sincere (positive and negative) feedback is needed. As a human you need to become touched by others in order to become more conscious. After that do not remain in the emotion but continue life and forgive all as then you can improve. Do not place the person who touches you in a stigma of many projections and do not crucify the other as this person only gave you insight in the layers you need to release.
That’s the biggest trap we encounter in our lives – saying only honey tongued words, crucify another or killing the messenger – as the other person’ s life demands another route we are (still) unwilling to notice or the other just touches an outer layer which hardly contains your energy in order to give you directions that you need to let go of that energy of others. That is why humans continue the vicious circle. Only skilled intuitives can read the book of life of that what lives and notice when there is agreement between experience and observation.
Anxiety, shame and conflict avoidant behavior results in ambivalent behavior.
If you do not change this behavior you have no longer the awareness of good or bad, right or wrong. You only reason mentally and tend to maintain the rules of society by judging and being judgmental. You have lost the contact with yourself and your identity. The open-mindedness became obstructed by your egocentric behavior. Your experiences are just rational and not based on inner feelings like emotions. You become the victim of brain waving due to extreme influences from your parents, partner, religion or society. A deep self-esteem and self-love is hard to sense. You no longer live in your body as other entities took over most of it. You are a living dead person and it results in “prosperity” illnesses:
- Mental illnesses such as a Psychotic disorder, Neurosis or Depressions
- Physical illnesses such as Rheumatism, Cancer, Overfeeding or Underfeeding
- Social illnesses such as Underestimation, Overvaluing, Victimization or Abuse
Maybe emotions are involved. Emotions that are sometimes suppressed for ages by the paternalistic system. Now these emotions have piled up and you can only express them with much extreme force. Man and woman have a different way to handle emotions at first sight but when they are allowed to express those emotions more often, they act in fact the same.
You can only react in a balanced way as all negative and positive emotions or expressions are allowed. Reality is a combination of both and not the suppression of one of them. If you also notice the paradoxes you surrender to Living Alive. You then experience many more possibilities as you have less dead weight to carry and as a result new unprecedented possibilities become possible.
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