Fortunately, aid workers who come professionally into contact with dying persons are able to follow a multi-day palliative course focused on their professional background.
Thus one day I followed a palliative course for nurses. Beside that there was more depth on nursing affairs in the last stage and how to write in accordance with the current guidelines also spirituality came up front.
Of course well-known personalities with their theories were named such as the five components in mourning by Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, the mourning veils of Jan van den Bout, the core theory of Herman de Monnik and the Memoriebox such as which in John’s Hospice in Vleuten (Utrecht) started by recording nice life events and the assistance to mourning from Manu Keirse.
Issues that are especially important for dying persons who are not yet really aware of what life expected from them from the day they incarnated up to the point that they are going to die. They and their surroundings have some guidance to what the above offers.
For people with a different religion or for more conscious persons however, this is far from enough. Often they have more consciousness about what “Life” means. Often they know their life purpose in this life. Now they want to know if they have sufficiently worked at this life purpose. Often they know their past lives and the thread with which this lifetime is connected to former and future lives. They want to know if it is still enriching. Some of them want to be helped to consciously transform to a next life. Some want to work on the basis for the theme in that next life.
They want to be released after their physical death as complete as possible. Thus also no picture for years in a room or their ashes on the mantelpiece or a memorial service every year. They want however, that they are occasionally remembered in short thought. They cannot sufficiently incarnate in their new life but become withdrawn to this dimension. Their soul/essence should/may also be respected after their death!
The latter persons have lived life in a more conscious way. Meaning that many developments in their lives they are aware of why it happened, what the occasion was, what their share was and what they have learned (= release). They call it living in the here and now. It is life in Union with that there is. That is also called religiare (Henk and Mia Leene, Pauline Laumans). The affiliated to that what exists. The affiliated to all living things (humans, animals, plants, stars, planets, water, Earth, air, wind etc.) likewise quantum theory reveals.
They are missing that these aid workers cannot have a conversation on their level, hand-out to an astrologer to make the balance by making a birth chart up to now, or expert reader (at least trained to graduate = 6 years) leading to deep insight in the life-cycle through life times (present, past, future).
Now these dying persons have to keep their mouth shut because most aid workers still have little to none knowledge of “Life” and the life cycle; destruction, transformation, creation. Their inner rich possession cannot be shared with those who are far from them and that’s a huge cold for the dying person if such aid workers are present.
