It is a fact that at some point people die. And yes, that is often very annoying for those who love and know this person. It is accompanied by much grief mainly because there is a void that cannot be filled in by someone else. How well other people are, no one can take the place of the one that is dying or is deceased.
This aspect of dying is part of Living Alive. It starts the moment the umbilical cord is cut and we must start to live independently. Yes, we must as we have chosen for a live in the flesh ourselves. Living Alive means to attach and detach in a continuing process. In doing so, we let go what no longer fits as we developed further and thus attach ourselves to newly acquired capabilities and experiences. That way we grow from the physical level to a soul and spirit level and thus we can also learn to develop higher spiritual faculties.
Quite annoying is it when someone suddenly steps out of life by accident or by murder. Then this process of detaching is much more difficult. Especially if we as an adult have not yet managed this process of attaching and detaching and thus stick to that what is transitory. We thus are Living Dead.
We are much more tenacious when we consider someone as a guru or idol. Then it is hard for us to let such a very ill person dye a natural death. By all means we keep that person alive, or rather we keep this person trapped in his earthly shell. The spirit or soul is, after all, has detached the body already and is only for a small part connected with the aura. By keeping a person alive this way we cause much suffer to him. Furthermore it is an act of disrespect. We do not honor and appreciate this person, but we hostage this person by keeping his physical body alive. We act as such as are not enough mature adults who can live independently on our own. We cannot let go (detach). It is our psychological problem what we don’t like to face. We want to maintain our fairy tale about our concept of life. Therefore we do not allow this person to die and we do not grant him the right to die.
We love to capture others alive by encapsulating and commemorating.
Think of Nelson Mandela, Diana Spencer Princess of Wales, Prince Friso of Orange-Nassau or the slain brothers Ruben and Julian that get a monument in Zeist. Also consider all who died at 11/9 or during war.
This way, those persons cannot continue properly their lives in a next lifetime. They cannot pass completely at that instant and thus cannot complete incarnate in a new body. They remain Earthbound to this body or this place. This happens as their cloths, goods, monument or headstone is still there.
When we love and respect these very ill persons and treatment forces us to make difficult choices, then there’s always the possibility of communicating, with the essence of that person. What does his essence want; proceed to the next world or linger in this world or hang between dimensions?
When we truly love a person we set him free and continue with our own inner life.
More information on this subject is in the following books:
- Freedom in Relationships: Have the right Identification
- Your Choice: Living Alive or Living Dead
- Karmic Reflections: Talking with Man and Nature
These books are for sale amongst others at www.boekenroute.nl (in English)
The Zend Avesta – the holy book of the Parsi’s ca. 6000 B.C. explains the negative impact of such choices.
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