For centuries humans look for a way to balance in order from that point of departure to develop further. On many times just a few individuals (awareness level 6-9) succeeded, while the mass continues with under-over situations (awareness level 1-6). One group wants to have a lot like money, property, devotee’s, while they do not allow the others to have anything and sometimes not even a crumb of bread from the bread that is to be divided.
It is not because these other persons lack knowledge, wisdom or vision or are not capable to act in a better positions, but because of the fact that they are not allowed. They become pushed to the lower levels of society.
In fact these macho persons lack inner strength and wisdom. All they can do is bullying others when no one is watching or keeping up appearances when the spotlight is turned on them (= Antisocial Personality Disorder). They conceal themselves behind grumpy taciturnity or destructive behavior and are inaccessible to others.
They keep up appearances by avoiding any conflict and play the ball towards each other. They show suppressive (conflicting) behavior to the ones in the lower ranks. All their suppressive and bullying behavior is an act of outer performance based on power and believes. It benefits only themselves and some of their sycophants and brown-nosers (figurative). It makes others and all on earth ill (mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually) as their actions by which they conduct (in fact let others suffer) are not based upon wisdom or knowledge nor are these actions for the sake of all living.
These man and woman with their big smiles, easy access to proclaim their views and show their male suppression of the female aspect, whether women or men are in command. In fact they show this male suppression with their macho behavior (lack of inner force). By this they destroy their work or their environment and they achieve more unbalance. They lack knowledge about their female inner side, with which they could raise questions and use more of their brain and instinct. They have many ways of showing their mental compassion towards others. They act in the field of charity or the conduct of… by their support through mental or social nourishments but in fact they do not care. All they care for is to keep their hierarchical position by this keeping up appearances that is devoid of an open heart. They just want to be satisfied and pleased by society, it is an act of indulgence.
Often their behavior is due to the fact that they have not learned to cope with adversity, disappointment, lost opportunities, unfulfilled desire, emotions and they never learned to understand who they actually are. They believe in a picture, an image of what others desire them to be (suppression), but what they are not. They live with their poor surface, while their true Self is buried somewhere deep beneath, so they no longer have access to their Self.
They look for certainties that could fill in their emptiness and loneliness – from their hollow barrel that they became by lack of their inner Self – and once more look for this in their external world. They look for it in money, power, possession or fame. Many bystanders in society show them that this makes them a man or a woman, by which they become the toy (suppression) of that society. Once more they become even more disconnected from who they really are. Actually, this makes them a macho. A macho is a person in imbalance who lacks inner strength. Others use this strength, which make both powerless, as this abuse of energy gives them no inner strength. Society forces persons to keep up this keeping up appearances, this hypocrisy and enter false identifications by which more persons have even less inner strength.
These persons maintain themselves by defense mechanisms, by adoring an idol (leader). They are plagued by huge fears. Their defense mechanisms are hidden behind the mask of love. Often they are full of hate without even realizing it and have a relationship with the opposite sex which is in fact a hate relationship. (more on this subject can be found in the book: http://www.pumbo.nl/boek/FreedomRelations
They maintain themselves by reaction formation, manifested in things like exaggeration, extravagant behavior, promise too much, striking and artificial behavior. Caused by this are many persons with a psycho pathogen disorder like psychopath, narcistic or MPD (Multiple Personality Disorder).
Others fear society and this van take the form of strict obedience to social conventions. This submission is a reaction formation and behind the mask of conformism is defiance and antagonism. There are men who mask their feminine inner side, because they see it as a sign of weakness or effeminacy and the same counts vice versa for women. They rather prefer to hide behind a mask of an overly masculine or feminine appearance and thus become a macho or develop a disorder. This is due to the fact that society to not allow them to de-velop their Self. They have to act and show behavior that society wants them to show and thus even more macho’s exists that suppress even more persons. It is a continuing destructive downward spiral.
A macho is often disconnected from his inner Self, has just mental feelings, lacks a conscience and thus cannot act incorruptible. Their own being as a human, their own balance (between their inner female and male aspect) has not yet been discovered by them. It results in the fact that they are more a caricature of a man or a woman than that they are a man or a woman.
Reaction formation is an irrational defense against fear. It often manifests itself in the fact that they hate the other sex deep inside and thus oppress them.It is our own society that creates men haters (misandrist) and women haters (misogynist). Many humans still fear woman (gynephobia), because deep inside they still fear their origin, the wo-man.
After forty thousand years, the existing society still suffers by the fact that the balance of duality has yet been learned and that we still are unable to detach the cross (the agony).
More information at this moment is presented in the books:
http://www.pumbo.nl/boek/FreedomRelations
http://www.pumbo.nl/boek/KarmicReflections
http://www.pumbo.nl/boek/YourChoice
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